Many people have different opinions and as network marketers we will often talk to many people who will tend to give their opinions. Sometimes their opinions are so different than ours that we want to give our opinion stating what we believe that is different.
Arguments are not all that bad but it is the way we conduct our arguments that become bad. Arguments can be a way for us to learn and grow among other people. However, many people often conduct their arguments in a harmful manner. There are many ways we can conduct our arguments in a harmful manner but I want to talk about telling people that they are wrong.
Many people often make the mistake in just telling other people they are wrong. This will give the person the impression that they are being attacked. It will cause them to put a defense around them. We all know that this is what we do not want. Once a defense is set up then it is nearly impossible for the person to pay attention to what we are saying. After all we need people to listen to what we say.
We need to learn to share our opinions with other people in a manner that is respectful. This will help us win friends and hopefully influence others in a positive way.